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Honor Thy Father and Mother

Once there was a little old man. His hands trembled. When he ate he clattered the silverware distressingly, missed his mouth with the spoon as often as not, and dribbled a bit of his food on the tablecloth. He lived with his married son, having nowhere else to live. His son's wife didn't like the arrangement.

"I can't have this," she said, "it interferes with my right to happiness." So she and her husband took the old man gently but firmly by the arm and led him to the corner of the kitchen. There they sat him on a stool and gave him his food in an earthenware bowl. From then on he always ate in the corner, blinking at the table with wistful eyes.

One day his hands trembled rather more than usual, and the earthenware bowl fell and broke. "If you are a pig," said the daughter-in-law, "you must eat out of a trough." So they made him a little wooden trough, and he got his meals in that.

These people had a four-year-old son of whom they were very fond. One evening the young man noticed his boy playing intently with some bits of wood and asked what he was doing. “I'm making a trough," he said, smiling up for approval, "to feed you and Mama when I get big."

The man and his wife looked at each other for a while and didn't say anything. Then they cried a little. Then they went to the corner and took the old man by the arm and led him back to the table. They sat him in a comfortable chair and gave him his food on a plate. From then on nobody ever scolded when he clattered or spilled or broke things.

One of Grimm's Fairy Tales, this anecdote has the crudity of simple times. Perhaps crudity is what we need today to illustrate the principle of the 5th commandment (cf. Ephesians 6:2). Indeed, let us honor our parents, lest our children dishonor us. On a larger scale, the society that destroys the family destroys itself!